Oddly enough, Brady and I never had the talk. It just sort of happened.

But then again, ours is also a long distance relationship every other two months. When he and I started dating, we were together for about oh...less than a week...and then he got deployed to the South Pacific. I remember thinking "hey, if things don't work out...then things don't work out...but if I can handle the separation, then I may actually be serious about this guy."

When he came home, it was a mutual understanding I didn't want to share him and he didn't want to share me.

But...

After a year and a half together we've had those bad moments. And then we realized that those talks were necessary. What JeffOTMG said is absolutely true! Those talks definitely helped my relationship grow.