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Originally posted by texas*princess
While I know this sort of thing will "vary" depending on the people, what if a couple just met (like for the very first time) and then decided a couple of months later to get married? I know people will say it "just feels right" but how do you really know this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with (well, theoretically anyway, b/c there is such things as divorce) after knowing them for such a small amount of time?
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I actually have a sort of similar experience to your friends. I dated this one guy for about four years during school (even lived with him that last summer), until things came apart at the end. For a year afterwards I tried to date other people, but just couldn’t get over my past relationship so just decided to stop dating until I was ready. About two months later I met a friend of my best friend and bam after only a short time I just knew (we have been dating for a little over six months now). It is really weird and hard to explain, and we both feel the same way.
I know personally after that past long relationship I really knew what I was looking for from someone, plus felt like I had everything in my life straight. In my past relationship, I was always wondering about things.. questioning things.. but with this I don't question things or worry about things.