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Originally posted by ladygreek
The old "raise your daughters and love your sons" syndrome. Yeah it happens in the Black community, too. This is when daughters are raised to cater to the males in the family, even their brothers.
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okay, so i am not in a minority, but i have experience with this idea in my freakish community. In some of the churches that i have gone to ( and have not liked) the women are all about "pleasing" the men. I mean, the group would be like 75% women and all the activities that were planned were centered around men, as in will the men like this activity, oh what can we do to do everything in life for the men. As a feminist i was discusted with this idea. I mean, yeah consider the guys, but since they made up only 25% of the population why were all the activities centered around the men.
I am just saying this cause i have experienced this, Boys good, girls there to serve boys, in my way to white world and just wanted to share another viewpoint of when this could and can happen.
oh and if you did not get this i am against the boys good, girls there to serve boys is not my view of how the world should work.