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Originally posted by JocelynC

I don't think I've responded to this thread yet but to add my two cents:

A general comment:

My mom is an NPHC alumnae and from my understanding, whatever information that an interest or unaffiliated person needed to know was on the website. If it wasn't there, that meant that the information was either something that just wasn't privy to non members or something that was for the interest to ask the members on her campus.

And alot of people might be annoyed whenever an NPHC member says "do you research", or "that's none of your business". But really, what right does anyone have to question the way they do things?

Formal rush is just set up different. It's all about Q and A with the sororities and PNM's and we try to answer all questions they might have. It's been my understanding that NPHC's, while receptive to most questions, do not want to play "Q and A" with interests and would rather them research first to answer the majority of their OWN questions before going any further with their pursuit.

Some people always ask "Why do interests have to do this?" or "Why is it that you all are so discreet?" or "What does your process entail?" In that organization, those things are just not to be discussed, just as certain things in NPC are not.

Some of you might say "Why can't you tell us this, we always share?" That's because our membership recruitement is such that we can.They cannot. It's not them being rude, it's not them being elitist, it's just the nature of their orgs that they can't share these things.

Just my opinion on some things. I try to be understanding of orgs with different policies other than my own. If only we could all be so thoughtful.

People on this site don't know when to leave well enough alone so I'll quote myself. And you know, remember when you were little and you asked your mom a question and her answer was "look it up"? I think that applies here too. Feel free to look it up, just stop the insanity. This thread is on HBGLO information. This could've been over and done about 100 or so posts ago if people just looked up and posted the websites.