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Originally posted by lifesaver
I wasnt saying she put it out there. My point was that she didnt have to read it. If shes concernd about 'prying eyes' so to speak, I just find it REALLY hypocritical to then go and read another groups rit. Outta respect thats some shady stuff I'd never do. If SGR's, Sigma Chi's or ATO's rit fell into my lap, I'd do what I coudl to contact somebody from one of those orgs and return the info. Cause their rit's and whats in 'em are none of my concern. I would assume that someone who seemed to be saying as much would actually beleieve the same thing. Just 'cause its out there dont mean she had to read it. Its a respect thing, so to speak.
Also, I NEVER SAID I wanted to know jack about her org. I dont care. Hell, I never even met a SGR. (but I appreciate you jumping to her defense tho). I'm saying that if other peoples business really is other peoples business (as she was preaching) then she shoullda acted it and not read that other groups biznass.
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Wow!! Go away for a work-weekend and people still can't get it.
To Starang21 and DSTCHAOS, thanks for trying to explain my point. Much Greek love to ya both
Now, as far as the Chi O site, when I first read it I really thought it was a joke. I did not think that someone would do that. I worked with a woman who is a Chi O and I asked her about the website. She did not go into any detail about the young lady who posted it, but did confirm that the information posted was true. And, just because someone is going to show me theirs does not mean I have to show them mine
. I used to drive the boys crazy with that one.
Keep in mind this was a WEBSITE, i.e., public domain, meaning anyone could read it, and I am sure many had. This was not a ritual book so therefore there was no need to contact the group's HQ. I am sure Chi O HQ was aware of the site.
Also, I think many of you (NPC/IFC) may not be aware that for some reason some people tend to develop unhealthy obsessions about a NPHC org, so they try to get *any* information they can, then come on these boards and perp like they are a member of the org. The less information that is divulged to non-members just strengthens the respect you have for your org.