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Originally posted by DeltaBetaBaby
think I could probably get his contact info, but I do not want to be a stalker.
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Phone or email him once and
once only (that is hardly being a stalker).
I personally prefer the email method, as (in my experience), men don't like being caught off guard with the telephone. Email is better, he can get back to you when he is psyched up for it.
If you email him, make it short, sweet and (above all) brief:
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Dear _____,
I enjoyed seeing you on such and such night.
If you wanted to get together next week, my numbers are:
(xxx) xxx-xxxx [home]
(xxx) xxx-xxxx [work]
Delta Baby.
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That's it. No more. Don't write paragraphs and paragraphs.
Do not email or call him again afterwards.
And don't write more...you don't want this to turn into an email back and forth that never actually materializes in a face to face meeting, you want him to PHONE you to set something up.
Also only give 2 phone numbers (yes, even though some people have 4: work, home, cell, pager) but only give 2 in your email to him (assuming that you go the email route to contact him). You don't want to come across as too accommodating and desperate for him to call you. So only give 2 (could be cell or work, home or work, something like that).
Give it a week and then if he does not respond, as hard as it is, you must be strong and move on. (If he doesn't respond, who knows, he could be dating someone already, maybe someone in his family has an illness, you can't know, but at least you will have given it a shot.).
Good luck and tell us what happens.
