I'm another one who sort of wonders what it would've been like to have joined freshman year, since I waited until Fall of my sophomore year to rush. If I had gone through rush as a freshman I wouldn't be a Delta Zeta right now since they were a colony and didn't do formal rush that year, so I'm glad I was so anti-sorority when I entered college
, but I do wish I had gone to some COB events. Freshman year I would see all these flyers in my dorm about COBs at the DZ house and I came an ace of going, but I was too nervous and even though by the middle of the year I had changed my mind about being Greek and wanted to do it, I didn't know how it would work out because I equated the "sorority type" with my older sister and I am
not at all like them!
So yeah, it would've been cool if I had come out of my shell and gone because I might've been a member earlier, but hey...like someone else said, better later than never, and I ended up in the best place for me anyway.