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Originally posted by cashmoney
Odds are it happened to you and you just dont know it. Most guys check up on their girls if they're in a serious relationship but arent married. Whether its riding by their house seeing if they're really home and not lying about being somewhere they really arent or if its checking their email seeing if they still talk to ex-boyfriends they're keeping on the back burner......it's acceptable from a guy's viewpoint. Women do sneaky sneaky things. Older guys realize by our age women are slicker than us. It takes us a little longer to figure that out for ourselves than it does women...but eventually we catch on.
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So you're saying its OK even if the guy has nothing to suspect?
Maybe I'm in the minority here, but to me, I guess it's one thing if a person (whether it's a guy or girl) does things like that just for no reason other than being snoopy and psycho, and another if the person has reason to believe the other person in the relationship is doing something really bad. (like if they have reason to believe the other person is cheating or maybe taking part in something highly illegal)
ETA: overly insecure people don't count in the above comment.. they would fall in the snoopy & psycho category
