I guess it's just hard to understand how a national could condone such a thing.

LA, you know I love you and I don't mean any disrespect to Phi Mu...and I can see your nationals' reasons why they have the policy they do.

Many of us put such a stress on sisterhood, and when we hear of alums that are prohibited from socializing with collegians, I'm guessing that we are quick to assume that they're being alienated -- especially since most of us are allowed to attend these events.