On another thread, a KD member said that KD does not offer a "general" alumnae initiation program. The members they accept at this level are those alumnae members of an absorbed local or perhaps a woman who has worked closely with a colony. If you have a special case such as being a pledged member who was not initiated, go ahead and contact headquarters. They will definitely be able to point you in the right direction.
For information on other groups, look at this thread – I’m 30 and want to go Greek
http://www.greekchat.net/gcforums/sh...&threadid=2526
One of the groups Theta Phi Alpha is listed with a “?”. They do offer alumnae initiation but again under certain circumstances.
To contact these organizations, you can find information at
www.npcwomen.org.
Good luck.