Hmm, great topic.

I think a lot of girls believe in that stereotype that all guys who flirt are jerks. I know I did.

That's why when I met my BF it was I who did the flirting. It was a risk...but it was worth it. Flirting with him totally blew him away because he wasn't used to it. He eventually flirted back after the Tequila kicked in, but by that time we already hit it off...and we're still together!

To the nice guys out there--don't be afraid to go for it. She might turn out to be a good friend...she might turn out to be the one, who knows?

To the gals--if you're interested, let him know! Show him you that you've got game! Then, let him flirt. If he turns out to be a frigging idiot, then deal with him accordingly.