SoCal, I know exactly what you mean! I would want my daughter (if I ever have one) to go Greek - but I almost would rather she went to a campus where my org was not, so there wouldn't be any pressure, from me or from the chapter there.
A girl in our chapter pledged because her mom was a sister. She's a nice girl and I'm glad she's part of us, but sometimes I just wish I could feel a little more like it was totally her decision. Her mom really seemed to push it. I guess I could be judgemental about that, but the thing is, I think it would be hard NOT to do even if you tried.
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