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Congrats on your candlelight!
I think this tradition varies a lil bit from chapter to chapter.
In my chapter it was once for a pinning(i dont think fraternity guys do this much anymore, though my dad gave his fraternity pin to my mother), twice for a lavaliere, and three times for an engagement.
I'm clueless on what you mean by "pearling."
When you let this be known to the president of your chapter so the candlelight can be planned, she should be able to tell you for sure what your individual chapter does.
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Kappa Alpha Theta-Life Loyal Member
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