Hazing... vs... skating...vs..paper
there are many different issues concerning the anti hazing policies. To be technical everyone who has crossed since 1990 is under the anti-hazing policy.. It really disturbs me to see that people who are in a sorority/fraternity are not respected like those who have "pledged." I was not hazed and i am not ashamed to admit it.... although i wish someday that i will have sorors that will respect me for the simple fact we have the same rights... i can do everything she does.. i can vote, i can go to regionals and boule... but i did not have to get my azz beat to do so... I think that for a soror not to like me or any of my sisters that did not go through the "pledging" process is a lack of something on her side... not liking me because you just don't like me is different from not liking me because i didn't pledge... i have not and will never disrespect any of my sorors due to how they came in.. i could care less as long as we are working toward the same goal within the sorority. I never had the opportunity to "pledge", for those who don't have a chapter at the school, the only thing that there is to do is go through their graduate chapter. I would love to have been pledged.... but that in still doesnt mean that i didn't earn my letters.. i am not a "paper chaser" i know my history, i know ALL my information i know what i need to know. My little sister and I over the summer talked to countless of older sorors and some closer to our age bracket about our sorority. True there is some things that are lost with the absense of pledging.... but i wear my letters with pride and dignity...
so take me how you want to... and once again... don't like me as a person before you don't like me as your soror or another greek..
MsIvy1908
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