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Well to be quite honest, while you say that he is a great guy, the behavior that you describe does not make it seem like he is living up to the hype. A great guy would not lie to his girl. A great guy would not then drag an innocent third party into his own lies. A great guy would CERTAINLy not do this with two women who were sisters and who he KNEW were close.
He sounds like an ass to me.
It also sounds like he needs to get busted. He is BEGGING for it. You need to go to her and talk this through. Your relationship with you sister is what is really important here, and you need to get the truth straight between the two of you. After that you can decide what the best way deal with him is (you know it is very possible to be friends with a group of people while remaining cool towards a member of that group, I doubt that if he has really been acting up that his bros don't know and that they would blame you for being mad if they are really "great" guys). If all you want his friends for is to party then there shouldn't be a pronlem. If you want them as friends you might want to think about the way his behavior reflects on them....
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It may be said with rough accuracy that there are three stages in the life of a strong people. First, it is a small power, and fights small powers. Then it is a great power, and fights great powers. Then it is a great power, and fights small powers, but pretends that they are great powers, in order to rekindle the ashes of its ancient emotion and vanity.-- G.K. Chesterton
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