Update.....
I was on my way to a "social" this weekend and ran into the prospective member in question, and taking Barbaras advice, talked to him. We both had to park on the street and walk about 1/4 mile to the event. I used that opportunity to tell him some of the things we are really proud of in our chapter and one of them is our substance use policy. I explained clearly what our policy was. He then took the opportunity to tell me that he had talked some smack in the past, and had done it with his friends, but didnt want to violate our policies. So.... problem solved, at least temporarily. Well see if he gets a bid. I think he probably will, because hee seems to be a great guy and many of the brothers like him. So I'll keep yall updated. Thanks GC community for the responces! I can always count on yall for great advice!
