I would strongly urge my son (nephew, grandson, cousin, etc.) to join a fraternity, as I feel it's one of the best decisions I ever made. However, I would want him to pledge the fraternity that he likes the best and is most comfortable with. That does not necessarily have to be my chapter. For example, if he went to a school where the chapter of my fraternity was not very good--low membership, low grades, etc.--then of course I wouldn't push him to join there.
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