CALL HIM.
I met a guy in Dewey Beach, Delaware last month--same scenario-- but-- his friend was a friend of a friend of mine-- SO, once back in LA, (He lives in Washington DC) I called his friend, who I'd met as well, got his #, took a deep breath and called him, all the while feeling SO NERVOUS--what if he didn't want to hear from me--but knowing it was an opportunity I couldn't let go by.
So I called.
And...
"I"M SO HAPPY YOU CALLED ME, I HATED THE IDEA THAT I'D NEVER SEE YOU AGAIN."
Since then we've talked a few times, emailed a lot, and he is making plans to come to LA for a few days in October, and I am going back to DC for a few days in November.
So make the call--- you never know-- and better to do everything you can and walk away knowing you tried then always wonder about an opportunity missed.
Amy