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I am not in an organization in NPHC. However, I know what they mean when they say that more than likely you would not be invited to another organization in their council with out criticism or being looked down upon. I think whether it's a formal procedure or not; the politics of Greek Life at times, depending on the council and org. can lead to this type of aspect. You have to keep in mind that no Greek Organization wants deadweight added to their chapter. And we are all looking for strong solid members. The key is quality and not quantity; so being that you were even given the chance to pursue farther membership for that prior org. says a lot and you should feel privaledged in that matter. However, I understand your feelings of not being able to see members of that org. you cannot refer to as your sisters. If you plan on finding another org. DO YOUR RESEARCH! Make sure it's something you believe in, you would feel proud to be a part of, and that you get to nkow it's members and what they are like in every aspect of the org. before trying to pursue its membership.
That way you won't have these feelings of resentment in the latter.
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