Katey,
I know how you feel when it comes to feeling like you are been left out. I was initiated in DST the end of last fall, winter qtr my big sis decide to go on inactive status ( then went away to Florida for 6mths for a intership) here all of my pledge sister were getting closer to their bigs & mine was never around. some of the others whos big sister was not around @ least had some one else within "thier family" but again i had no one
(everyone within my little fam. had graduated)
but spring qtr one of the sisters (who i have become VERY close to) asked me how i would feel about her "adopting" me. @ the end of spring qtr we made in offical & she is now my big sis
although i feel bad because i changed my big sis, i think i made the right decsion. & im looking forward to growing REALLY close to my "new family" this qtr.( & the rest of my life)