Not an update just a comment.
Whatever happened to marrying for love???
Why marry for the sake of convenience or because it just looks good?
Why would I want to marry my "baby daddy" if I had either???
Some women (since the author directed this at women) have "baby daddies" but not by choice. Some of the pregnancies were unplanned and accidental. So one should marry a man when it it's clear that the pregnancy was a mistake??? IF HE EVEN STAYS AROUND WHEN FINDING OUT.