[laidbackfella]

Men of Alpha Phi Alpha if this is an unwarranted intrusion I will edit the content of this message.

I have several comments and questions based on the post made by philly.

This is NOT intended to start drama nor or you expected to answer just wanted to give you some of MY thoughts on what you shared.

philly it seems you want to do it for wrong reasons.

Originally posted by phillyinterest6
I totally understand what you are saying, but from what i've heard and seen, waiting to graduate school basically sucks for some people.

Many people have skewed vision of what fraternal life is all about.

Parties, panties and 'pull' should be well established BEFORE joining any GLO.

Trying to use the organization to bolster stats generally means that a person won't work hard for any organization.

Originally posted by phillyinterest6
I personally believe that by doing this undergrad it will give me the chance to do a lot more for Alpha, and my school.

I'm not an Alpha.

But I'm just curious to know how you'll feel you will do more?

You should be doing things for your school now.

Originally posted by phillyinterest6
When i get to graduate school more than likely i'll be working, going to school, and trying to figure out what im going to do with my life.

Then that would be a good way to help you grow.

It seems as if you already have a mental barrier and an unhealthy perception about Graduate members

If you were to fellowship with Black Men making positive moves in their community you'd be getting just what you need, right when you need it.

But I see that you are using some tools to build monuments before you even have a chance to experience life as a Graduate student or aspirant.

Originally posted by phillyinterest6
I feel that i wont be able to be as dedicated and make as much progress as i could if i were an undergrad member.

Then don't do it.

BGLOs don't need another member that isn't FULLY dedicated to furthering the cause of any of our organizations.

The NAACP, Urban League and various other organizations are available.

Seek those out if you feel that you have a shadow of a doubt when it comes to putting in true work.

With those you can come and go.

With a Fraternity you SHOULD not.

Originally posted by phillyinterest6
Im not saying i already plan to be inactive, but in grad school i would like to already have a reputation for myself and my chapter while assisting other aspirants.

Are you seeking Alpha for Alpha?

Or

Are you seeking Alpha so that you can be considered Greek and enjoy the social benefits thereof?