[PhoenixAzul]

Honestly, I would be outrageously offended if a guy i was dating told me that I was fat or that I needed to be at the gym or criticized what I was eating, especially since I struggled with an eating disorder in my younger years. Shit like that is what gives women complexes and body dismorphia and eating disorders. It creates this insecurity..."oh my god, the person I love most is disgusted by my body therefore I am worthless etc etc". And then guys bitch and moan when a woman says "i'm getting fat!".