I remember in high school one of the main reasons we went to church on Wednesday nights was for the boys. It was a social activity and the parents trusted the people you are with. So many times - it was "mom i am going with the girls to so and so's house" We would go over to someone's house, end up partying and hooking up-- and the parents never thought twice about it-- it was a church activity after all! We had soooo much fun back then! So, church often leads to those types of activities.