Bobby has hit a touchy subject. You have to be the right type of person to the right person to be able to tell them "hey you've gained weight.".
When I was with my ex-bf we both gained weight towards the end of our first year together. We were just kinda looking at each other after eating at Applebee's and at the same time we said "omg did we really do this to ourselves?". It was like we hadn't noticed or something. So we agreed to start working out more and together, and we ate healthier.
Now if Nick had looked at me and said "baby you got fat" or "baby you got a lil' tummy". I would have flipped. But with both of us doing it at the same time it was okay.
But.... if my significant other had gained weight i'd prolly tell them.
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