Well no one so far seems to share my view...I'd rather any of my legacies not join my org.
Here's my reasons:
Hopefully I'll be close enough to them that I don't feel like I NEED to be her "sister" to be connected and close.
I kind of like the fact that my sorority offers me a SEPERATE family from my real one.
I want them to experience thier own ritual and sisterhood.
If they ever deactivate or are expelled I couldn't help but take it a little personally that they'd be rejecting or are rejected from my org. Even though I'd have sense enough to know better.
Plus I'd hate for them to feel like they only got accepted because they were a leg. I have sisters that never mentioned that they were legacies of various glos because they didn't want that to happen.
Of course if they did join my glo that would be okay. I would just not try to push it at all.
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