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Originally posted by AGDee
I took the question to mean that you already know that the person doesn't interest you. First dates are definitely a "get to know you" to see if there is interest situation. But, if, after the first date, you know you aren't interested (ie. they revealed a deal breaker), and you continue to go out with them, then I just don't get it.
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Eesh. I hadn't read it like that. In that case, you're right.
There's a difference between deal-breakers and just not knowing for sure what's going on, though. For instance, for me, having kids is a deal-breaker. So is being very quiet and shy.
If you have kids, I won't go on a 2nd date with you. (Though I will reccomend you for other positions in the field, if you're a sweet guy.) But I'll sometimes go on a 2nd date with a quiet guy -- figuring he might have had an off night, been cowed by my obvious beauty and charms, etc.