If the can't ask when you're going to have kids, people will always find something nosy to ask. Right after my husband and I got married, people immediately began to ask when we were going to start our family, probably bc we were older. Then after our family began to grow quickly, they asked if we knew what caused it or if we knew how to stop. (Offensive to us because our kids are intelligent, caring, high-achieving, and well-behaved.) We liked to reply that conceiving them was so much fun that we didn't want to stop.
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