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Originally posted by kt nupe
You all's attitude sucks!
The reason many of the guys come at you with these crazy lines is because 80% of the time we are not serious. All we hear about is how "you can't find a man", but when a man approaches you, you get pleasure out of dissing him. The one thing I noticed in this thread is that you women take great pride in dissing guys. It's like a badge of honor for you. Even if a guy did approach you with a decent greeting you still diss him. This guy could be a potental husband. It is very very difficult to judge a guy on just one or two sentences. Here is a clue: If you want to find a man, open yourselves up to be approachable. If you walk around with a garbage attitude, you will attract garbage.
I dare anyone of you on this board to debate me on this issue. As a matter of fact you all will probably ignore this message and keep posting your "badge of honor" stories.
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I am married and my husband is a wonderful man that did not have to use piquant lines to speak to me...
I think many ladies have an inability to use "innuendo"... Now to use "innuendo", it is usually when a lady finds the other guy attractive... However, most of the time, the guys who are unattractive give the lame pick up lines for whatever reason, too drunk, no confidence, a dare, as a "wingman", whatever...
Men who step up to me (before I was married) with lame lines usually will get put in their place quickly by me. If they are attractive, I let them off easily... If they are unattractive, I say I have to go to Church to scare them off. Sometimes it works, sometimes it does not...
I never had to use any lame lines to pick up on a man. They all had to come to me. And if I stood like a wall flower all night when I hung out with my girls, then, hey, fine with me...
But when a MAN had the guts to step up to me, I did try to listen what he had to say unless he was drunk or high. And the conversation would take off from there.
However, several men have misinterpretations and misguided perceptions about women, generally. And I classify them as pure mysogynists. I have been harrassed by men before that have been ugly and hurtful. Most women would have slapped these guys or called the police after what was said to me. Then I am asked for forgiveness of there inane reactions. So, as a defense mechanism, I am extremely STOIC which is INTENTIONAL and scares most men away...
Only the strong man can survive me...
Hence my husband...
Right now, KT, you are showing out how you treat your wife... How long do you think you will remain married to her with YOUR attitude? You are borderline abusive. And you take words to a whole nother level that it is not all that serious...
Who cares how old fools step up to women? And why are you worried that these women are eliminating "potential husbands"?
It sounds like you still "party" at the clubs and get homegirls numbers, thinking they gave it to you...
I find that juvenile and pathetic.