Thanks everyone. Both sides of your arguments helped me sort things out. Yes, I knew it wouldn't be easy but I expected I didn't expect to despise seeing my line sisters and elders. And personally, if I were to pick sisters who would uphold the sorority ideals of leadership etc, I would not want girls who would agree to be treated this way. I'd want girls who would say, "No. I don't take sh*t from anybody!"
I've made the decision to bow out but I'm really afraid of talking to any board members or whatnot so I won't. One person can't change a system.
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