A friend of mine (well, hopefully more than a friend soon
) wants to rush a sorority this fall. however, she is also heavily involved in athletics, working on the management team for the Girl's Basketball Team as well. She wants to rush AND do her athletic responsibilities as well. I've warned her that she probably can't have her cake and eat it too, but I am seeking a second opinion. Does anyone have any succes/horror stories about this kind of situation?