NoMotiv--I agree with what everyone else has said about checking out this other chapter before disaffiliating. I had a woman from one chapter (who hated sorority life) almost disaffiliate. She then transferred to my school, and she saw me in a class one day with my letters on. I guess I looked nice enough to talk to. We ended up having lunch, and I invited her to the house that night for our meeting. She ended up loving sorority life with us, because it was so different from her own chapter previously. We ended up adding her to a family line, giving her a number and a nickname, and initiating her again as a member of our chapter. It was awesome, and we're still great friends!
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