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Funny.....this is almost the same situation that I wet through with my current boyfriend.
We met at his fraternity house (my brother and best friend are in the same fraternity) and dated for about 2 1/2 months. Even though it wasn't serious his brothers treated us both like it was and even called me "John's" when introducing me (like "Hey Erin, this is Kari, she's John's." *not his real name*).
Well, we had a talk about how neither one of us wanted a serious relationship even though we both liked each other a lot. After that we kind of stopped talking at all for three weeks, I'm not sure why. We would talk every 4 or 5 days and hung out once or twice. Around the 4th week he started calling me more and he asked me out for that weekend. We went on a really nice group date with a few of his brothers and had an awesome time. That night we pretty much made it "official".
Well, it's been about a month since then, and stuff has been kind of rocky. Admittedly it has been a while since I had a boyfriend, and ex and I were together for over a year so I don't remember how to do the "new relationhip" thing that well, but it just seems like we are stuck. We act the same around each other and still only see each other two or three times a week. It's almost like (and my brother told me this too) he wants the benefits of a relationship without the commitment.
So just be careful. I'm in a sticky situation and it sounds like one he is trying to get you into as well.
Good luck and I hope everything works out for the best!
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