[AOPIHottie]

I am so sorry your having issues! I am not a mom myself, but I have been a preschool/toddler teacher for two years, and I understand how upsetting it is to thinkyour child is not being looked after properly. I personally would want to take him out just for the no-id thing. I agree with stopping in randomly, as well as talking to other parents about what they think about the center.
And if you decide to take him out, then when looking for another center, spend a week randomly stopping in to look around, and talking to parents who are there. If the center has a problem withg you doing that, I would look somewhere else. Unfortunantly not every center follows the guidlines they should. I know in texas there is a website that will list centers and any reports/inspections/violations that have occured according to the Dept Child Regulatory services. Perhaps you can find a site like that. Good luck!