Unfortunately, I'm sure EVERYONE has similar stories of similar Brothers/Sisters. At my chapter we have a term for them - a "Whassup Brother" - because you never see them except on campus when you get a head nod and a "What's up" comment. A Whassup Brother is someone who initiates and then disappears from the fraternity scene - doesn't come to meetings, socials, games or anything! Very rarely will they pay dues at all, much less on time!
A Whassup Brother is different than a Slacker Brother, who is the one that ditches all the important things like meetings, community service, etc.; only to be the first in line for a social or be seen at a bar later after a missed event.
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