[OtterXO]

The only thing I can say is that if he broke up with you, he broke up with you. It doesn't really matter what he says or does afterwards (short of getting back together with you) because you're not together...kind of like ex sex. If you have sex with an ex, it doesn't mean you're back together...it just means you had sex with an ex. It's not like he's going to sit there badmouthing you or something, he obviously likes you or he wouldn't have dated you! Sorry if this seems blunt, but I would say if you were under the impression that it was over between you guys it probably is. Maybe talk to him and say that his behavior is confusing you because you thought things had ended and see what he says, but don't ask him that if you're not ready to hear the answer you don't like. That's my advice...hope it helps!