[jhujenn]

I'm so sorry about your daycare situation! I think what you need to do is sit down and make a list of the things that you want out of daycare for Max and find a place that meets the criteria. I'm not going to say that Mr. Jhujenn and I love the daycare we have our son in, but the issues we have with it we can mitigate. I think it's very important if at all possible to have someone go over and check on him during the day. Desmond is in daycare right across the street from where I work and four stops away from dad so we are both over there at lunch everyday. This was very important to us. We also wanted a secure facility with definite sign-in/sign-out policy. No one can get in the facility without knowing the code for the door and your child still has to be signed in/out. This was important because we both work in DC I'm not even going to talk about the crazy people here.

There are problems and we have immediately addressed those with the director and we have also done our part to mitigate any problems we may have. Some people might not think parents should have to do anything with regards to daycare, but I look at it like he is still our child we just loan him out for a couple of hours everyday while we go to work.

I would also ask friends who they would recommend I don't really know how many options you have where you are.