Like everyone else said, get wedding planning software or a good book-form planner. I got mine at Barnes & Noble for about $15, and it had all sorts of checklists for things I never even thought of.
Pick out invitations soon so you can have lots of time to address them. And get a guest list EARLY so you have numbers for things, like the caterer.
Have her join theknot.com. I prefer it to weddingchannel.com. I'm a huge fan of The Knot Magazine, too. It has all sorts of ideas for people who don't have huge budgets (and some for those who do). I found pictures of dresses, flowers, cakes, etc. all from the magazine and website.
Good luck! My wedding is in less than a month, and I'll let you know if I think of anything else.
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