Get all of her bridesmaids to order their dress ASAP. The red from David's is such a pretty color, and my roommate and I were just saying how beautiful it would be for a Christmas wedding (I'm wearing a strapless red dress from David's for my little's wedding tomorrow!). But David's will change styles fairly quickly sometimes... I had picked out a different dress with the bride, but by the time the other bridesmaids got around to getting there it was discontinued.
Have a cookie table! Bring the tradition down to Georgia! I dropped off myc ookies at the hall yesterday.... dear God, I have NEVER seen so many cookies. Even the hall staff commented on how many there were (and this is Pittsburgh, they have cookie tables at every wedding). If honey's theory is true, they will have a very successful marriage.
Maybe not so much a problem down South, but we're going to have pictures taking outside tomorrow... on top of Mt. Washington (overlooks the city). It's going to be friggin cold!!!!!
I will probably have a ton of wedding do's and don't after tomorrow
ETA: communicate with the bridesmaids! They can help you a lot, and it makes things very confusing when they're out of the loop.
As the mother of the bride, go to the bachlorette party! You'll need the stress relief