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Originally posted by Munchkin03
One of the actives in my chapter (actually, my big) got pregnant and decided to keep the baby, putting him up for adoption. She wasn't asked to leave or take alumna status.
She received nothing but support from us collegiates or even the alumnae advisors, but members of other sororities quickly began to tell PNMs that we were all promiscuous. I'm sure it's this fear of judgement that can be problematic to pregnant PNMs and actives that many sorority members are thinking about when they say they don't want a pregnant member. It's hypocritical to me because the woman in question didn't do anything most Greek women haven't done...she just has "proof," so to speak.
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Actually...I wasnt asked to take alumnae status...and I believe I said before in another post that if I would have been a PNM that was pregnant while rushing KD...I dont believe I would have made it or have even been given a bid since I did attend a more conservative school.
Social Clubs are different from a sorority and I was given a lot of support from my fellow pledge sisters and actives which helped me alot!