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Originally posted by 33girl
I think that maybe the reason she didn't get your point was because she didn't get judged in that way and assumes everyone's sisters (from both her KD chapter and her social club) are as non-judgemental and supportive as hers.
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One of the actives in my chapter (actually, my big) got pregnant and decided to keep the baby, putting him up for adoption. She wasn't asked to leave or take alumna status.
She received nothing but support from us collegiates or even the alumnae advisors, but members of other sororities quickly began to tell PNMs that we were all promiscuous. I'm sure it's this fear of judgement that can be problematic to pregnant PNMs and actives that many sorority members are thinking about when they say they don't want a pregnant member. It's hypocritical to me because the woman in question didn't do anything most Greek women haven't done...she just has "proof," so to speak.