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Originally posted by Munchkin03
My point, which you obviously didn't get, was that instead of pretending that actives are primarily concerned with how the PNM will balance motherhood with sisterhood, most are more concerned with how a pregnant PNM will look to "the outside world" or "the Greek community," and just don't want to admit it.

I admit that that would be a concern of mine. It's a valid concern, and anyone who says it doesn't matter is lying. I'm not saying women who have kids or are pregnant shouldn't be considered, but the climate of the campus and whether having this young woman will make other PNM's avoid you like the plague needs to be considered as well. This may be fully acceptable @ liberal schools, but might not fly @ a more conservative school and that must be considered.