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Originally posted by SigKap:
I think just talking to your little makes you a good big. Even if it's about stupid stuff. I love my big sis so so so so so much she is truly my best friend, but it's all because she talks to me! It's all about communication girls. Just like with boys, only less grunting. 
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That's so true, communication is the most important of all. Half of GC probably knows all the issues I had with my real big, but the big difference between her and my "adopted" big is that I know I could call my adopted big anytime, and while she might wonder how many drugs I happened to take before I called her cell phone at midnight when she was on a trip with her mom and I was 750 miles from home as well, she'll still sit there and listen to me vent because I'm lonely and tired and annoyed and so on. My real big bought me a ton of stuff, but my adopted big passed down a bunch of her stuff to me, and you can guess which stuff I value a lot more. It's not the gift exchanging that makes the relationship between a big and little what it is, it's the bond between them that counts.
Liz