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Originally posted by cashmoney
Adrian,
Girl, my standards are high. I'm starting to think, though, that men's standards and women's standards are two different things. For example, men set their standards according to how hot the girl is because they know that other men will look at her and infer how much of a stud/pimp/baller/rolmodel you are based on how hot the girl you have is. Our status on the totempole of our peers depends on how much money we make and how hot of a girl we have. If you make good money and have a hot chick....other men are going to want to be like you and look up to you. And thats what every guy wants deep down. Nobody wants to be like the guy who makes 50,000$ a year and has a fat wife. People look at men like Brad Pitt and Nick Lachay and think about how much they'd like to be like them because of the money they make and the women they have.....a lot of guys out there want to wish they could have their life. A lot of men who settle for average looking girls are doing exactly that...settling for something. And they're usually the ones who end up looking for something else later on down the line and end up having affairs. We look at it like, if you got the money and the hottest girl you've ever had....you wont want something else. The only problem with that train of thought, though, is that a lot of time when you have those two things you're giving up something else somewhere up in the mix. Thats Nick and Brad's whole problem right now......Jessica is a coke whore, read Lindsey lohan's txt mssg to paris hilton about her seeing her do coke in the bathroom. Nick wants the good wife but Jessica isnt that. Brad wants a Kid but Jenn doesnt...she's too concerned with other shit to have a kid....so, they're gettign a divorce.
One time a friend of mine told me you can't do coke and eat cookies at the same time....you'll end up vomiting. I thought to myself...."i wonder if the same applies to women, you cant have the hottest chick out there and her be the sweetest thing also." Well, one time I blew a few lines and I ate a whole box of vanilla sandwich cookies with a big glass of milk. You know what happened? I passed out. That tells me you can have the girl, the money and the personality/faithfull chick but that it depends on you, the individual. Thats why I give all these hot, naughty looking girls a chance because I feel like at some point I'm going to meet a good one. Are ya feelin me?
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I suppose. Well, then I think you set the standards too high. I am not saying there is a problem with going out with hot looking women. I am just saying, when you are looking for a lasting relatioship, I think your priorities are a little off. I am not stupid enough to think that a man doesn't pick women based on their looks. I think the problem lies in the fact that is all what some guys look for. If a girl looks good, that is all that guys need to go out with her. Well, what about her as a person? I am only saying this because it seems that all of these stories that you tell involves gorgeous women with serious issues. Why is that?
Personally, my problem with guys is that my standards are too low. I have had to take a break from guys are figure out what is that I am looking for. I am a firm believer that there is someone out there that is the person of your dreams. Sometimes you just have to wait for them to come your way instead of searching.