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Originally posted by AOIIBrandi
Yes, y'alls behavior is a bit psychotic... In regards to her lying, some people do have this problem, I believe in a lot of instances they do it to keep themselves out of trouble. Have you ever reacted badly to her when she has done something small (like forgetting to do something she said she was going to do) and she admitted it? Once this happens some women (and men) feel like just lying and telling you what you want to hear will be easier and not cause a fight, or drama, or...
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I think all guys have reacted badly to things women have done. Thats something Ive made a point to change. Instead of reacting at the moment Ive learned to "respond" after Ive thought about it. For example, this one girl told me she made out with a black dude once. Well, its been my experience that chicks that go interracial end up doing a lot of nasty things...like getting double teamed and triple teamed. If its a girl i care about I get bent out of shape. I know its my own insecurities that cause that....but its something I gotta get over. Well, the girl that did that ended up being someone I care about...and still do. I got over it but its not something I like to think about. If its just a "fuck" I could care less. Whether you think its racist or not, if a white guy tells his white girlfriend "hey, I have sex with black chicks as well as white girls" it kind of freaks them out if they were raised a certain way. How do I know this? A few of my friends have went chocolate at least once just to try it out and then told later GFs and the girls freaked out. Its wierd, though. When those same guys told other girls they've banged asian girls it was no big deal. Thats what I dont understand. Anyhow, my point is....its all about responding rather than reacting....and Ive learned it the hard way.
