experiences like this ar why it's hard for our college students to see hazing as a real problem. it happened in high school and often times, coaches know about it and even endorse it.
When i was a chapter advisor (just a few months ago), exec would often ask if they do something "small" b/c the nm's expected "something" to happen. absolutely not! the chain has to break somewhere, and that somewhere was my chapter!
gotta wonder about people these days and why they let this kind of thing happen!
