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Originally posted by sigmajill
i just wanted to say that if being a mother had anything to do with being in a sorority, it would be that at least you would know that the PNM was responsible. I was initiated 2 years ago and at that time, my daughter was 2. It is not only possible but easy(for me anyway) to be a good single mother, a full-time college student, a good employee, and an excellent sister(I am now the tresurer). I do understand that this isnt possible for everyone but a woman shouldn't be jugded on how good of a member she will be just because she is a mother. All of my sisters love my daughter and there has never been a time that she and I weren't accepted fully. They even make letter shirts for her and they all call her thier neice. What a wonderful oppurtunity to not only watch one of your own legacies grow up, but to teach her all that is important about your sisterhood. My daughter, at four, knows 2 of our sorority songs. my point is that you really shouldn't judge a pnm for that because she turn out to be one of your most devoted members.
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I just think that women like sigmajill should be given a chance at sisterhood and sorority life. Not all women can handle it, but why catagorically deny the ones who can based on the actions of a few.