It is funny because a friend and I spoke about this as we were having lunch today. He is a Nupe and for some people it is very important to keep the family tradition of joining the same org. I said that as long as my children PLEDGE one of the great eight (PLEASE, NO DISRESPECT TO ANYONE, IT IS JUST MY WISH) I would ba happy. If they want to do something else, then I will be as supportive as I can. Maybe what made me want to join my org. they will see in another one. My friend said that his son better be a Nupe but, he then added that he plans on being so a good role model and make sure his children are around positive Nupes, so that hiw son grows up wanting to become a part of it. My niece does my sign and call- I cannot wait for her to goto high school and invite her, NOT FORCE HER to become a Rhoer. After that, it is her choice.
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