[AKA_Monet]

Cash, Sweetheart,

Why ARE you (and your boys) trying to pin down "the one" that loves to live in a bunch of crap?

My take, just date the chicks.... Don't have any steady girls... Just have numbers you need for "whenever" you need them... You already have that...

The more you try to keep tabs on the "one's who CLAIM they want a family" and they are cheating, the more you all cannot allow your lover to be set free... They must feel free...

Now, you want the "hot chicks"... Hot chicks cost... Period... And they are like hot cars... Go in and out of style... You can always get a new model for the next year... But your problem, as well as your boys, is you all are unwilling to give up that selfishness to have ANY meaningful relationship leading to marriage...

It's all about "ME, ME, ME" or "I, I, I"--I this, I that, I whatever... That is selfishness.

In a marriage, your love MUST be devoted to your WIFE...

Your all's problem is your soul is being stripped away each time you allow these spiritual vampires to infest your body (and psyche)... That is what is making you all crazy... These women are not all spiritually adept if they live as you say they live... And neither do they want to be... However, what you and your boys WANT is the spiritually trusting woman--not housewife--but the woman that KNOWS the "spin" move and the sets of nine and ONLY wants to share that with you...

How do you KNOW you have met that woman? Clean up your soul a bit (tiny bit), and the woman that is NOT interested in your looks or the life you lead--because she's been there, done that and could care less about yours, 'cuz she's already has her life together and you would only be a wonderful compliment to add to hers as well as your life--will be the one for you...

But that takes a lot of soul searching time... In the meantime, you all need another outlet of frustration... For real, tho... Y'all riding yourselves to the ground... Dayum...