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Originally posted by ZTAngel
I have a question for you. Please don't take this the wrong way. I just want you to think about this for a second.
You've been on GC for a few years and you've posted a number of stories about failed relationships you've had because you believe the girl is a hooker or because she cheated on you. Your friends have had the same experience.
In my years of dating, I've only had one guy cheat on me. I'd say this is the same for many of my friends except for one. She keeps meeting these assholes who end up hurting her. She wonders why her friends have met these people who they trust and have a great relationship with but she always meets jerks.
Could it be that, for some reason, she purposely goes after people that she knows will hurt her?
Could you and your friends, maybe, be going after girls you know are no good for some reason? Maybe it's your mind's way of telling you that you're not ready for a relationship yet. There's nothing wrong with that but maybe you should be doing the dating thing for a while rather than get caught up with girls who have issues and who you know will inevitable hurt you. (except for Rachel but I think that was a fluke)
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The hooker girl wasnt mine...just to clarify that one up. And she hide that one really well for a number of years from my boy.
Well, how many guys have you seriously dated in your adult life? I'm guessing maybe 2 or 3 at the most? Am I right? The first few girls I dated in my adult life werent bad, the girls became worse the older I got. So, let me see if I understand you...you're saying its better to give up hot women who could possibly cause you problems and go for an average looking girl who you know cant get anyone hotter than you, that way they wont cheat on you and make you go crazy? Because the only good girls I know who dont cause problems are those who arent really hot or anything to brag about. Rachel was borderline between hot and good looking....and she still caused problems. She's down in Miami now hanging out with guys who run Club Space.